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[–] Aeao@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

We are actually good friends. We hate each other but we got a kid. When I was having a mental health crisis i called her. We she had one she called me.

I’m currently angry at her but she’s not a demon. I’m just venting. She’s a wonderful mother and a crappy wife. I’m also a crappy husband.

Child support is always on time and we’ve never needed to go to court about anything. We just handled it her and I.

I’m dunking on a good friend who temporarily has me annoyed.

On to the wizarding world.

I’m asexual (probably why marriage was hard for me lol) and have adhd so severe I was in training videos.

I was also right in the age range when the books came out. I loved them.

You still pick griffendor. Obviously! They are everything slytherin has but by choice and they are nice about it!

Griffendor is essentially “I’m a slytherin but I want more. Life should matter. I should fight”

Did other people not get the same message from the books?

[–] CannonFodder@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I got that slytherin were clever, self centered, morally deficient, but effective. Whereas griffendor were brave, selfless, strong of character. Ravenclaw had the brains. And hufflepuff were the stupid tools.

[–] Aeao@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Did you get that slytherin was effective? The seem to completely and always fail.

[–] CannonFodder@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

I suppose. Just like the ravenclaws are supposed to be super smart but they don't seem to contribute much on figuring important things out. It was always just a setup to make the gryfendors win every fucking time.

[–] JandroDelSol@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

I was fourteen and wanted to be a slytherin because i was edgy lol. eventually settled on hufflepuff before jk went ballistic