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We are actually good friends. We hate each other but we got a kid. When I was having a mental health crisis i called her. We she had one she called me.
I’m currently angry at her but she’s not a demon. I’m just venting. She’s a wonderful mother and a crappy wife. I’m also a crappy husband.
Child support is always on time and we’ve never needed to go to court about anything. We just handled it her and I.
I’m dunking on a good friend who temporarily has me annoyed.
On to the wizarding world.
I’m asexual (probably why marriage was hard for me lol) and have adhd so severe I was in training videos.
I was also right in the age range when the books came out. I loved them.
You still pick griffendor. Obviously! They are everything slytherin has but by choice and they are nice about it!
Griffendor is essentially “I’m a slytherin but I want more. Life should matter. I should fight”
Did other people not get the same message from the books?
I got that slytherin were clever, self centered, morally deficient, but effective. Whereas griffendor were brave, selfless, strong of character. Ravenclaw had the brains. And hufflepuff were the stupid tools.
Did you get that slytherin was effective? The seem to completely and always fail.
I suppose. Just like the ravenclaws are supposed to be super smart but they don't seem to contribute much on figuring important things out. It was always just a setup to make the gryfendors win every fucking time.
I was fourteen and wanted to be a slytherin because i was edgy lol. eventually settled on hufflepuff before jk went ballistic