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[–] TankovayaDiviziya@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

There are secret homosexuals who are homophobes because they have been bullied. Some are openly gay but are self-hating because of bullying as well. To put it succinctly, there are self-hating gays because they have internalised the oppression, and that is manifestation of trauma.

[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Absolutely, but what is the use of knowing that information? What can anyone do about it.

[–] TankovayaDiviziya@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

but what is the use of knowing that information?

Bottling down the innate sexuality towards the same sex because of societal constraints is bad for the person's well-being. At worst, it self-perpetuate the culture of homophobia because the self-loathing person adds fuel to the fire.

What can anyone do about it.

Learn to accept that homosexuality is perfectly fine, and those with internalised oppression needs therapy.