That's not just Americans that do that... That's pretty much anywhere with any religion.

And don't forget, those are the people who tell us atheists that "without the Bible, where do you get your morals from?"

Well, we can see what these biblical morals are - you mentioned it: homophobia, racism etcetera. It makes people hateful, while claiming it is charity and compassion.

Religion poisons everything.

“If God created everything, then who created God?”

There's a lot of places where one can poke holes into faith/the concept of a God, but I don't think this is one.

The reason being that God's existence doesn't actually change anything about the question or the answer. You can rephrase it as "If everything came from the Big Bang, what came before the Big Bang and what created the preconditions of the Big Bang?"

So you could use the same argument to "disprove" literally any world view, including science, or even hypothetical scenarios like the simulation theory ("If we live in a simulation, who is running the simulation?").

But you can not only "disprove" every potential answer to "where does everything come from", but you can also rephrase the question to "If atoms are made of quarks, what are quarks made of, and what are their components made of?" or to "If there's an end to the universe, what is outside of it?"

If you are smart enough though, you will see that none of that is actually disproving anything, because if you rephrase the question further it becomes "Why don't we know everything?" and that's a rather simple-minded question to ask. One befitting of a 7 or 8 year old, but not really of an adult.

Before the circumnavigation and the discovery and charting of all of the world, people also didn't know what was on the other side of the planet and still it would have been dumb to doubt what we knew (e.g. that the British Isles existed) only because there were large white spots on the map elsewhere.

The answer that any person who has thought about it and not rejected the idea is: If a being that has created and shaped our universe exists, it exists (at least partly) outside of our universe. Like a programmer doesn't have to follow in his life the limitations of his code in programming, such an entity's existence would be so far outside our modes of thinking that "who created him?" would simply fall flat as a question.

To begin to answer such a question one would have to have some knowledge of the plane of existence where the divine resides, and as that is outside the realm of what we can understand through physics and the natural world we live in, the question becomes unanswerable.

The question then becomes, can something exist on another plane of existence? The answer is of course, we can't examine anything outside our universe, so, the answer must be, we don't or can't know.

I suppose then, the next question becomes, do you want to believe that there is something /someone outside the natural universe that gives meaning to our existence?

Christianity (and most religions) always has been a way for people to cope with their fears and guilt. 'what happens after we die?' -> 'its heaven dont worry'. 'Am I a bad person?' -> 'no Jesus died for you dont worry fam'

It sounds like we were similarly inquisitive children, perhaps to the point of making adults uncomfortable.

My European mother is the reason religion didn't fuck me up worse than it did. I was also forced to go to church as a kid, but even within our own family there were differences in thought and opinion that still managed to exist in civil dinner table discourse. My mother seems to have gone through her own questioning process, it just didn't take her to extreme atheism but rather she arrived at more of a mystical Abrahammic monotheism. When I was older, I fell into the trap of religion on my own (Evangelical Christianity) and it's changed the course of my life significantly in both good and bad ways.

A decade to a decade and a half later I'm mostly over it. I'm comfortable with my current belief system and I live life openly and honestly with 95% of people I meet. If I had to describe myself I'd call myself a self-rolled Buddhist-Atheist.

I'm not envious of those Christians with enough of a conscience to realize what's going, but who are reliant on "American Christians(TM)" for their community, support, spirituality/philosophy/introspection. They have difficult and painful decisions ahead of them. You can only ignore your conscience for so long, but the first to defect will be shunned and hated and will likely lose their entire social circles. That happened to me. They will also be susceptible, as we all are, to similar tactics and abuses as those doled out by their former religion. You don't leave and suddenly become a mastermind at spotting abuse of power and become immediately immune. If anyone reading this falls into that category, I would recommend finding a nice, non-religious hobby where you see people from different walks of life on a regular basis. Bicycling groups, social dances, gardening collectives, etc. People are pretty nice outside of the bubble. You'll be okay.