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I'll try to dial back my time on lemmy because I've noticed that I spend way, way more time here than I ever did back on reddit

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[–] Forester@pawb.social 75 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I ditched read it when they broke the API haven't been back since. I spend the same amount of time that I used to spend on Reddit on here maybe less as there is less content.

[–] Trex202@lemmy.world 28 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Less content, but less toxic too

[–] notnotmike@programming.dev 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I've found it's less toxic if you agree with everyone

But if you were to log into Lemmy as a conservative or pro capitalist I think the toxicity would ratchet up instantly, even if you tried to discuss in "good faith"

[–] MonkeMischief@lemmy.today 1 points 7 hours ago

I've found myself on the "Let me evaluate this as objectively as possible and still I usually end up pretty left of center" camp, and yet I'm definitely not immune to it.

I've had a few run-ins, like one where I tried to de-escalate and respectfully critique a thread that was basically (smugly?) a "death to anyone who looks like they might resemble the other team" jihad , and boy, oh boy the hivemind got stirred.

It's gotten so bad that merely suggesting temperance and moral consideration brands you a filthy both-siding liberal nazi-enabler or something.

I believe a successful resistance includes restraining unhinged extremists that would stab their fellows in the back for not being extreme enough, but some segments of Lemmy won't hear it.

[–] Trex202@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I agree with you 🙃

I guess we're in our own echoes chamber

[–] rammer@sopuli.xyz 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I dunno. Lemmy.ml is pretty toxic too.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 5 points 1 day ago

not as bad as reddit, where every discussion often involves some form of trolling propaganda, that is hard to control.

[–] 30p87@feddit.org 3 points 1 day ago

Block and move one, luckily most aggregate in one place.

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 22 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Same here, I think. I spend less time here, but time spent is of more quality.

[–] S_H_K@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 day ago

Same here too. I only ever checkit for niche communities and sometimes not even that.