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[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 72 points 4 weeks ago (26 children)

Serious illnesses can be horrifying to watch someone go through and poverty routinely seperates loved ones.

Standing by someone in a terrible - perhaps terminal - condition is absolutely an incredible challenge and shouldn't be dismissed as anything less than that.

A big reason you want to stand by your partner in perilous circumstances is because you want them to be there for you. And another big reason is because you might not get any more moments together than this, so make them last.

In a place like America, where sick days are a luxury and health care can still bankrupt you, being at someone's bedside is a cross to bare. Be happy when you're not carrying it. Don't be so quick to judge when someone else can't.

[–] YtA4QCam2A9j7EfTgHrH 60 points 4 weeks ago (7 children)

I literally was a caregiver for ten years (full time six of those years). My wife recently died. I was astonished by the number of people who told me to leave her. wtf is wrong with people. You don’t abandon people who are suffering.

[–] NikkiDimes@lemmy.world 22 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Damn. You're a strong person. I'm sorry you had to go through that, but I'm sure you staying by her side made those years more beareble for her. I'd like to think I'd do the same, but I hope I never have to find out...

[–] YtA4QCam2A9j7EfTgHrH 15 points 4 weeks ago

Eh, I was just doing what I had to do for the person I loved. But thank you. I hope you don’t have to find out either. It is really cursed knowledge

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