Man, I don't recognize this at all. At work I'm currently in the middle of a two-month project that I think will end up producing about ten lines of code. It's all about tracking a bunch of stuff down in a gigantic code base and then trial-and-erroring all of it until it works.

So, my mother-in-law's phone keyboard switches to French-Canadian? Yeah, I can definitely fix that! My dad wants a mesh network in his house so he can listen to music in the garage? Can do! My kid's audio player breaks and I need to transplant in a new part? Give it to me! My wife's computer won't print suddenly? These little wins (and sometimes medium sized wins!) are euphoric. They keep me from feeling like I've wasted an entire day switching one variable, running a build, and then switching it back.

Sure, it gets annoying when they don't try anything before they ask, or they keep having the same problem over and over again. But that's by far the minority.