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‘Men don’t know why they became unhappy’: the toxic gender war dividing South Korea
(www.theguardian.com)
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I have thought about this for a while now.
It definitely seems like the whole gender war topic is artificially inflated by social media, which in turn is owned and regulated by billionaires, so i'm inclined to think that yes, the gender wars are a part of a distraction scheme by the rich to keep the people divided, but also i think there maybe is more to it.
Like, i have talked to a lot of people in person, and the common narrative seems to be among a lot of people (maybe a third) that they outright don't want to have children, never wanted to have any, and simply feel pressured by society to marry and have children at all. In that case, you could look at it like a "liberation movement". But also, that is only a small part of the population (maybe 1/3). Then you have a lot of people who don't have an opinion and simply move along with whatever the societal mainstream is (maybe another 60%), and then you have a small amount of anarchists who want to determine their own lifes, and these often do want to have kids. So, a significant part of society (i'd say maybe 60%) is inflluenced by the media, and the media sends two conflicting narratives:
On the one hand, they send the narrative in leftist spaces that "having no children is a good thing and you should all want it. Having children pushes the women into difficult situations since they will end up being the caretaker and such."
On the other hand, in right-wing circles, especially the white-supremacy movement, they say that having children is good because we need to preserve our white race.
So, if you take these two things together, possibly there's a push to make right-wing people have more children and left-wing people have less children. But that's only a guess on my side. I'm still investigating more about this.