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submitted 5 months ago by LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone to c/me_irl@lemmy.world

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[–] RedPandaRaider@feddit.org 5 points 5 months ago (4 children)

I understand Hi and inquisitive questions, but a compliment as danger?

[–] Multiplexer@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

The sentence is a strong indication that the complimenting person wants to do some small talk.
And is starting with a personal remark commenting on one's appearance.

I am a rather introvert person with some additional slight social anxiety issues.
Wouldn't directly interpret it as "danger", but would definitely get uncomfortable and depending on how good I know the person also anxious.

[–] brown567@sh.itjust.works 2 points 5 months ago

I'm not great at telling sincerity from sarcasm and was bullied in school for my appearance, so being complimented out-of-the-blue initially registers as a threat for me until my thinking brain can catch up

[–] JandroDelSol@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

Hi. with a period feels so weird lol