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I'm not sorry. Seeing someone who spread so much hate and bigotry and weaponized disinformation get his clock cleaned was absolutely fine by me.

I have empathy for lots of people even if we don't always agree, but not for people like Charlie Kirk.

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[–] MotoAsh@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I read it, I was responding to it.

My point is, this IS NOT "watching people die". It's watching this one, specific, utterly vile piece of shit die.

Just like those who go view a death penalty execution, the reaction is subjective. Maybe YOU do not viscerally feel his terribleness like others do, but to some of us who have loved ones who were harmed by him, or otherwise understand how bad he was, it's like watching a child rapist get put down. Sure, it might still be gross if it wasn't YOUR child they raped, but that direct family might be clapping in that viewing room...

Your inability to understand how fucking disgusting kirk was is merely your own failing. Again, this IS NOT the same as just watching randos die on the internet.

At all.

[–] Mr_Dr_Oink@lemmy.world -2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

So your humanity is on a sliding scale? Death is only gruesome and foul if it happens to good people? Is there a specific point where it flips from ok to not ok?

Hating someone and wishing they were dead is not the same as taking pleasure in watching them die. My comment is responding to the original post about OP taking joy in watching the video. You are straw-manning my point. Twisting it into something else.

Do you see what i am saying?

I followed this stuff very closely. I know who kirk was. I despised him outright. You are mistaking my disgust for murder for empathy. I hated him. But i dont want to watch him explode blood from his neck.

Cant you see how foul that is? You are really gonna compare it to the frankly archaic practice of death row and watching people get killed? What is this the fucking 1800s?

[–] MotoAsh@lemmy.world 1 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

No, you refuse to understand that other people feel differently based on perspective. Grow the fuck up and realize you are not the only moral being on this planet you fucking sheltered child.

[–] Mr_Dr_Oink@lemmy.world 1 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

No sense of irony in that response.

How are you going to accuse me of not understanding other peoples feelings on a matter when you are responding in the exact way that you describe.

I am struggling to see it your way. Yes. But what makes it more difficult is you dont want to try to help me understand. You just want to attack me, attack my character and throw me aside because you dont seem to be able to deal with me having a different opinion to you.

I am trying to understand how someone can feel pleasure watching someone gush blood from the neck. Please stop calling me sheltered, its innacurate and offensive.

I completely understand finding joy in kirks death. 100% he was a monster. I dont know how many times i have to say it.

But watching someone die and knowing someone died are completely different things. The joy that is felt from each comes from very different places.

Cant we just talk about this instead of fighting about it? I'm serious. Take a step back, think about this. Charlie kirk has died and we are here arguing about it despite both hating the man.

I personally draw a line between being happy a bad person died, and sitting there watching him die in a gruesome way and enjoying the sight of it. I dont think it makes you better because you can stomach watching that. But thats what it feels like you are saying.

I hope you understand i am trying to just talk about this. Im not trying to cause more anger.

[–] MotoAsh@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

You won't understand unless you yourself have been personally harmed by such vile people. That's what I'm saying. The frustration comes from you attempting to take the moral high ground when you are simply, literally, ignorant.

When someone permanently changes your life by injecting misery in to it, misery you cannot shake or forget, your views of that person sour in a way that words cannot describe. Especially when they're a stranger that knows nothing about you, yet still will gleefully harm you and permanently change the direction of your life.

You should be happy to not know what that is like, but do not mistake your ignorance for greater morals.