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My mum spoke to me shortly after it was announced that he'd died and I kinda was like "okay, feel bad for this children who had to witness it, can't say I can sympathise with him though he was hardly a saint himself" and my mum was like "he spoke out against the woke people" over and over

I told her he literally said little kids dying in school shootings is worth it so people can have guns. he said empathy doesn't exist and he doesn't have empathy for kids being killed. He ridiculed disabled people in his circles. That he advocated for the genocide in Gaza by supporting Israel's actions.

Then she was like "no no no you got it all wrong he was giving a speech when someone asked him if more people die from gang shootings or school shootings, then he was shot" even though the thing I was talking about was from 2023. He's a man in a position of power and authority and influence over others, it's a bit different from "just having a different opinion".

She ended up getting pissed off at me and blanking me after that but I don't care. I guess me caring more about kids dying than guns makes me officially "woke" now but so be it. I'll stand by the fact I can't find anything redeemable about this man or any reason to sympathise with him

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[โ€“] Nougat@fedia.io 2 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

... in a country with free and fair elections, ...

At the very least, fascists are openly gerrymandering to put their thumb on the scale in order to keep Congress. (This is more of that ignoring foundational documents and norms, by the way.) I think the midterms are going to be "cancelled" because of some "emergency." I'll be happy if I'm wrong, but that's the scenario I'm operating under. I understand that you prefer to wait until that prediction becomes reality, and I'm not going to deny you that. Reasonable people can disagree. But - we're already moving past "free and fair elections," whether you think there will be midterms or not.

What's already happened - fascists being afraid - is a positive thing. It means that it doesn't take that much for them to cower. It means that people who oppose them have the capability to stop them. It suggests that the number of people needed to accomplish that may be smaller than anyone thinks.

I'd also like to add here, about this conversation - I'm not "arguing", strictly speaking. When I said that you and I were on the same side, all efforts great and small, I meant it. I appreciate this back and forth, because it allows me the opportunity to clarify my own thoughts for myself, as well as giving me a chance to be wrong and change my mind. Thank you.

[โ€“] LaLuzDelSol@lemmy.world 3 points 3 hours ago

Thank you for sharing your opinions respectfully - that's why I'm here too. I try to challenge echo chambers whenever I see them when I have a differing opinion, and on Lemmy that usually positions me to the political right of the people I get into debates with (on Reddit its often the opposite). And I've had my mind changed on a few issues along the way- or at least had my views shifted a little.

The world needs more people with your mindset. Cheers.