Crime

My biggest piece of dating advice is to looks-max. No, I am not saying get a 6-pack and become a conventional hot guy, but rather to really focus on having a nice haircut, gel or wax your hair or comb it thoroughly, wear very clean, new looking clothing. Yes, you should iron even casual wear.

Men don't notice when they are wearing faded clothing, and if their hair isn't sticking out everywhere like a wildman they think they are set for the day... But women truly pay attention to all this, IMO.

You can pick up decent looking women even as a bit of a chubby guy if you nail looking well-groomed and you have some charm.

Sadly, being more than just a bit chubby is enough to send women away. At least, that is my experience.

Probably you were not asking for literal advice on this, lol, an djust venting, which is COOL, since I have BEEN there, watching total dickheads who aren't even attractive succeed while I was alone... But yeah, I want to help anyone reading.

Another thing that took me a while to learn: if you appear to be a big drinker, your male friends will approve but this can really count against you among a lot of women. I am sure the same is for narcotics use. No idea if this is an issue for you, but it was for me.