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Seems like there might be enough traction, so here we go!

Our first "book" shall be “The Ones Who Walk Away From Omelas” by Ursula K LeGuin.

It is a short story that is readily available online. If you cannot purchase it, rent it, or find it online please let me know and I will provide more information on how to get it.

Trigger warnings: emotional abuse, grooming, and child abuse

I would like to include some discussion questions that are community specific, and not generic book club questions, so these will likely be questions I ask regarding every work, subject to change of course.

Some things to think about while reading:

  • Do you think this work is told from a feminist perspective? Why?
  • Do you think the authors gender or gender identity affected their choice of subject, writing style, or perspective character?
  • Does the narrators gender or gender identity affect the work? If so, how?
  • Did this work change your opinion on anything? If so, what and why?

I don't know if I'll start adding generic book club questions, but if you'd like more general discussion questions of the works going forward, please let me know and I can include some. There's just a lot of discussion available already for this specific piece and I don't want answers to common questions to overshadow more nuanced discussions that center women which is why we're all in this community. Also, this is not a homework assignment. You can choose to address any or none of the questions posed here, or talk about your general thoughts or whatever else. Please feel free to pose your own questions in the comments as well. These should serve as a handy springboard if needed, but not a mandatory outline.

Our first movie will be Kpop Demon Hunters. There were some other suggestions, but I wanted to keep it a little lighter considering this months book has some serious trigger warnings and I wanted people to be able to participate in at least one of the two, even if they would rather not engage in heavy topics. This is an animated movie available on Netflix. I know this is a little exclusionary, but there are some other ways to watch it as well.

Trigger warnings: animated violence/gore, discussion of demons and the afterlife

Same as above: I would like to include some discussion questions that are community specific, and not generic movie club questions, so these will likely be questions I ask regarding every work, subject to change of course.

Some things to think about while watching:

  • Do you think this work is told from a feminist perspective? Why?
  • Do you think the authors gender or gender identity affected their choice of subject, writing style, or perspective character?
  • Does the narrators gender or gender identity affect the work? If so, how?
  • Did this work change your opinion on anything? If so, what and why?

I don't know if I'll start adding generic questions, but if you'd like more general discussion questions of the works going forward, please let me know and I can include some. There's just a lot of discussion available already for this specific piece and I don't want answers to common questions to overshadow more nuanced discussions that center women which is why we're all in this community. Also, this is not a homework assignment. You can choose to address any or none of the questions posed here, or talk about your general thoughts or whatever else. Please feel free to pose your own questions in the comments as well. These should serve as a handy springboard if needed, but not a mandatory outline.

Comments are spoilers territory. If you want to use spoiler tags in the comments, please do, but it is not required. If you venture into the comments please keep in mind this is a discussion thread for media so there will likely be spoilers.

Going forward This is a community project. I would like to get input regarding written works and tv/movies that would be a good fit for this. I will leave a comment on this thread that you can respond to if you'd like to offer a suggestion. One suggestion per comment please. You can comment multiple times though. I'd like to make sure the selections are widely accessible, so please add that information if you know for sure something is in the public domain or available online, as that makes it easier to recommend. Please vote on the other comments you see there. I'd like to pair heavier topics in one media with lighter topics in the other, just in case you're wondering why a specific piece was not chosen. Things like language or availability may also affect the selection. I'm also open to changing or adding discussion questions.

Thank you all for your interest. Excited to hear your perspectives!

PS: Even if you have seen or read the media before, I would encourage a reread or rewatch to best participate in the discussion!

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[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 5 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Wow. You're jumping STRAIGHT into the hard stuff!

[–] Greercase@lemmus.org 5 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Right? It's relatively short and in my opinion unfortunately eternally relevant, so I hope it'll encourage more participation! Excited to see people's takes.

[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

So when do we start talking? I have THOUGHTS on that work. For such a short work there is so much buried beneath it. LeGuin is rivalling Laozi for encoding philosophies here.

[–] Greercase@lemmus.org 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

The thread is open to conversations as soon as it's posted! You can comment whenever you're ready. I'd suggest making it a top level comments though to ensure the most visibility/engagement. Excited to read your thoughts!

[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 3 points 3 days ago

I just re-read it to kickstart the memory and I'll do a detailed read later. Then ... THOUGHTS will leak out. This is a complicated work with no good answers to anything.

[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

It's good you put a trigger warning on that. That's the short story equivalent of Black Kirin's "Nanjing Massacre" video: intensely artistic, introspective, and shocking in equal parts.

[–] Greercase@lemmus.org 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Yes, definitely! I hope you'll consider providing some suggestions for future months. I think you posted a song on a different thread and I had not heard it before but it was great and lead me down a rabbit hole of melodic folk metal. You seem to be able to provide lots of novel references, and I really appreciate that! I don't have a broad base to draw from, so any additional perspectives are always welcome.

[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 1 points 3 days ago

Well, I think I attached a pretty novel reference to the missive I just dropped. :D