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If there's any interest on her part, then there's no reason it shouldn't. Doing it this way says you're probably a bit shy, but she's interesting enough to you for you to take the gamble on trying to connect anyway - many would think that's cute & flattering. The fact you're trying to be considerate of the potential pressure she might feel from being put in the spot if approached directly is also nice.
Thanks for the advice, ive been out of the dating scene for a while. I mean ive had my hook ups, but tinder is easy and beyond hookup i wasn’t interested at the time. Idk im 36 so im looking to settle down and have a real relationship. heart break sucks