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I don't think this discussion is actually about downvotes, those can be a element, but beyond having or not having downvotes how do we get more collaborative discussions happening here?
Different people have different bars for nazi adjacent. i.e. all meat-eaters are nazis
My bad I backed out of the discussion I was trying to respond in linked in the comments.
Yeah I know I'm going to get downvoted for having a discussion about veganism on Lemmy. I've been called a monster before but that doesn't really bother me ethier. They truly think that what i am doing makes me a horrible person and that's their perogative.
As a carnivore on lemmy, I have a similar experience! It's a really good example you bring up, things people have strong visceral feelings about often get emotional reactions and are very difficult to discuss productively on lemmy with respect for people who have made different choices.
How can we bridge the gap so that we can speak about these sensitive subjects without people feeling like monsters, or being subjected to pejoratives ?