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[–] Lightor@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

...... People make fun of small tits and bald people all the time. You can argue that people shouldn't say mean things all day long, but the reality is you need to not let every little thing set you off or upset you.

I'm more curious on the good way to insult someone haha

[–] Fiivemacs@lemmy.ca 0 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

just call em what they are, insecure people. no reason to also insult women, or peoples genetics. that's my only gripe tbh. I've never understood why it's acceptable overall to insult someone based on something they can't help.

I get the overall reasoning behind the masculinity and having small dicks but the insult just never sits well with me and causes this global stigma that small dicks are inherently bad which can turn normal people into hating themselves for just being born.

I don't know the best way to insult those people but yeah..just voicing my opinion which obviously gets misunderstood as me defending them.

[–] Lightor@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I think there might be wires crossing in the convo.

I don't think it's right or ok to insult someone based on who are what they are, at all. But I also don't let every negative comment about those things impact me. If someone starts attacking my looks in an argument that means I'm winning and I press harder, I don't get upset about it.

I think the small dick thing, in a sense, is like calling people "gay" when they mean "weird" or whatever. Is it right? Hell no, but I don't let it bother me if someone calls me gay, I pretend I am and I own it. Take away their power from saying that dumb shit.

People are always going to say fucked up shit, trying to stop that will just give you high blood pressure. I think it's better to disarm those things and not let it effect you, then the weight behind those words start to fade.