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[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I mean, my color scheme for every outfit I have is purple, black, gray, and white, so I’m literally a walking ace flag. And she’s in a queer bar, so I would hope she knows at least a couple of flags.

[–] grysbok@lemmy.sdf.org 10 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

LGBTQA+ people can be tunnel-visioned about their "flavor" of queer. I was once told by a lesbian that of course I wouldn't know about a specific Boston queer housing mailing list---I have a boyfriend.

Never mind I'm ace, non-binary, and polyamorous [which may or may not be queer, but is at least queer adjacent]. Like, yeah. I'm not LG. I can still be BTQA+.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Yes. I really struggle with some queer folks because they just... refuse to realize other people aren't like them. Then they go on rants against cishet people for doing the same thing, but hey if they do it it's totally cool! It's insanely hypocritical.