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[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I've never felt insecure about my height, and I do fall at the lowest end of the spectrum. Also one of the few times being gay has been a blessing since men tend to be a lot less fussy about height.

To me, everyone else's expectations are the problem. Not me! I literally don't understand the appeal because it feels like such an arbitrary thing to like, like hair color.

[–] porksnort@slrpnk.net 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Hear hear. I am average-slim and gay. Being easy to handle by a larger man is basically non-existent-God’s way of making up for all the other difficulties of being queer in a straight world.

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Being gay certainly has its perks! For being such an awful sin, the Christian god sure gives a lot of mixed signals.

[–] Ultraviolet@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Incels love to blame all their problems on height because it's the one thing that can't be their fault.