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[–] Ledivin@lemmy.world 9 points 4 days ago (1 children)

And just to be clear, you believe that this would take less time away from the other children?

[–] HorreC@lemmy.world -2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

with that person, no, but you can get all the info out to the parent and have an actual conversation with the people that care for your child. Like I said mgmt would be able to grab those children that need watching with those care givers talking to parents. The idea you think this is the better option is my issue. Its just parents who wanna look for others to blame yet they wouldnt spend 5 min a day to talk to the person they leave the child with.

[–] Quokka@quokk.au 5 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Management can not just slot in to replace an educator.

Especially not when you have 6 rooms of adults picking their kids up after finishing work at 5.

The simple matter of fact is there is not enough time to talk to ~20 families each evening and give a summary of their kids day.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

If nothing unusual happened you don't need a summary. When I was getting picked up my conversation with my dad was "how was school?", "fine" 99% of the time. If I got sick or injured myself, sure, explain, but that was rare. Same for most of the other kids.

[–] Quokka@quokk.au 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

No, that’s not sufficient. I’m sorry you were let down by the educational standards at the time.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 0 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I turned out fine so it clearly was. Not sure how my parents knowing a minute by minute breakdown of every time I wiped my ass would have improved anything.

[–] Ledivin@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I turned out fine so it clearly was.

Not everyone else did.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 0 points 2 days ago (1 children)

So provide more info to the special cases that need it.

[–] Ledivin@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

And what if you're the special case?

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 1 points 2 days ago

Nah, I was solidly middle of the pack as a kid, if not lower-middle.

[–] Quokka@quokk.au 1 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

That’s the same excuse people who hit their kids use. You could have turned out even better, with better care and education.

As for tracking nappy changes, it can help with assessing any health issues and tracking long term trends, it’s useful for toileting as we can see how frequently and volume of accidents to help understand their needs for prompting, it’s useful for parents to know if for example they’re going out straight away and need to change before hand, and it’s useful for child protection (our records show that this educator changed the nappy at the time of the incident etc).

Now maybe you never ever needed any of this, that’s great but it still helps other people. Helicopter parenting is not letting your children go play with friends and driving them to piano lessons at age 3, it’s not checking a nappy record every now and then.

[–] HorreC@lemmy.world 0 points 3 days ago

I would think that in itself is a problem. mgmt should be able to and understand the caregivers.