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[–] Triasha@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago

Figuring out that just adopting every external expectation is impossible is liberating.

But then you need to figure out what standards you do want to strive for, and that's hard work too. Still better to have the goals set for yourself than the contradictory standards that are handed to us by family, advertising, and media.