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it's so nice to be accepted for who you are!
are you on xiaohongshu? I love the chinese people on there they are so accepting, creative, encouraging and kind!
I have a little social media presence on WeChat and QQ, but not on Xiaohongshu, no. I don't use commercial social media of any kind very often, so never saw a need to sign up.
Little note about XHS, though: when that flood of Americans signed up in defiance of the TikTok ban, Chinese social media everywhere lit up with people admonishing users to be polite and kind to the Americans to give them a good impression of Chinese people.
Picture the reverse and Twatter …
fair! I wasn't a tiktok or instagram or facebook user because of their policies but i checked XHS out when i saw people here on lemmy talk about them. It's an oasis compared to what i have experienced on those other platforms because it's mostly women and when you report folks being shitheads (mostly Americans and Russians) the reports are actually dealt with in a timely fashion!
Congrats to you on finding acceptance it seems like a lovely country.
It is by no means a perfect country. (I don't believe such exists.) But I've been happier here than anywhere outside of my five years in Germany as a teen.
I once though "microaggressions" weren't a thing, let's put it that way. Until I came here and found out that I'd been burdened by them for practically my entire life to the point I thought that was just how life worked. The load being lifted was ... nice.