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Women only trans inclusive This is an inclusive community for all things women. Whether you're here for make up tips, feminism or just friendly chit chat, we've got you covered.

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  1. Women only… trans women are women, and transphobic or gender critical talk isn’t allowed. Anyone under the trans umbrella (e.g. non-binary, bigender, agender) is free to decide whether a women's community is a good fit for them.
  2. Don’t be a dick. No personal attacks, no aggression, play nice.
  3. Don’t hate on groups, hatefilled talk about groups is not allowed. Ever.
  4. No governmental politics, so no talk of Trump actions etc. We recommend Feminism@beehaw.org for that, but here is an escape from it.
  5. New accounts or users with few comments may have their posts removed to prevent spam and bad-faith participation.

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What do you all think of a WomensStuff supporters group open to all genders? (piefed.blahaj.zone)
submitted 4 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) by LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone to c/womensstuff@piefed.blahaj.zone
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Hey all! A male supporter has offered to open a community called WomensStuffSupporters that all genders can reply to. That gives men somewhere to show support that isn't here and also make here easier to moderate.

There's the option to X post from one to another, which is wouldn't want to happen automatically as some people wouldn't like that.

What do you all think of the idea? I'll leave this post up for a while before a decision is made.

Edit: you can message me if you don't want to say publicly. I won't let people know you contacted me, I'd just potentially say someone messaged saying they did/didn't want it

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[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

"I'll make my own women's stuff! With blackjack and hookers!"

Not a bad take. I'm not sure that's the actual motivation but it's close enough to the truth it's certainly worth considering.

[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I really don't think it's that with him, I've chatted with him and his comment history is positive. His thinking was it would reduce the shit we get here and support us. I'm sure he's offered with only good intentions

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Oh there may very much be great intentions, but unconscious bias is very much a thing.

Mentioned this to my partner, his immediate response was a face like a sucked lemon and "doesn't that defeat the purpose though?"

Doesn't it? We have a comm where we ask that men don't participate, they cracked the shits as they so often do, so now we're discussing building them a little playpen mirror so their little sookie egos can be soothed. One again we have to be the bigger adult and make room.

Why pander? I like this planet. They can get off it.

[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 days ago

Thanks for commenting! I understand your perspective. The guy seems legit, and a big part of his reason is to reduce moderation here.