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Yea I won't even speak until I hear someone on the other end. Even then I disguise my voice until I'm certain it's a legit caller.
You purposely pick up and sit in silence? Not even a "Yo", "Sup", or "Aye"?
I wondered why people have been doing that when I call them at work. Sucks to be them, they've been waiting 2 weeks to 2 months for an appointment. I just hang up and move on to the next. If they didn't want to talk they should have let it go to voicemail.
I do because in general one of the following scenarios happen:
But to be fair if it was ever a human in scenario 3 and I missed an important call, I wouldn't know (however I don't think that ever happened)
Also, the burden of initiating conversation should be on the active caller side, not on the passice receiver
And lastly, I heard thar if you answer the robots, your number gets flagged as real (instead of other robot), making the scammers call you more often (I'm agnostic in regards to this statement)
As an active caller, unless there is a ton of background noise, I may or may not get any indication that the person I'm calling has actually picked up. So I'm just going to sit there until they say something or hang up.
Ahh, fair enough, I always can tell when somebody picked up because the timely beeps stop (and also somehow I know that the silence from the background is different from the silence before it)
Yup. AI spam calls generally hang up within 3 seconds if they don't hear a voice on the other end. It's when they detect a voice that the auto dialer connects you with the scammer.
Meanwhile 99% of the people I want to talk to are contacts in my phone or businesses with caller id.
I don't answer calls from random numbers anyways so it's largely irrelevant unless I'm expecting calls for some reason.
And that's why I don't feel too bad moving on to the next. If I'm calling someone, they had to have called me at least once already. If they're too lazy to save the number and want to play silly games, I have better uses of my time. I was just curious of the thought process.
I just hang up as soon as I hear that little "bloop" sound and that cuts out 90% of them.
Now that you mention it, I think I've noticed that too. Is it like the phone version of the Gen Z stare?
That's just an effective tactic. I'm way older than gen z and figured out a long time ago that unless a reply is absolutely necessary, just staying quiet and staring will get a transactional conversation to it's point and over much quicker.
Actually I think the few seconds might be caused by people taking calls on their ear buds.
I use a shitty android and JBLs so maybe airpods don't have that slight delay when they connect.