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[–] outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com -1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

fewer personal insults

Don't say such vile shit. Dont ignore people's humanity just because you think the way they live spoils your view. I get that you don't understand how gross youre being here, because only your emotions are real, butyou in particular hage absolutely no right to ask for civility in this conversation while advocating to do things in the most fundamemtally uncivil ways you can think of, insisting they're the only way, and then insisting that aboyt something else in the very next reply. You either do mot have self awareness, or you are not participating in good faith. There is no other explanation that doesn't get incredibly contrived and involve some shit that gave a bunch of silver age superheroes their powers.

straw manning

Consider people you want to actbon as people and I'll give future comments a once-over. Til then; no. As far as im concerned I've been iron-manning your shit.

unhinged

I offered to literally go outside and talk to the unhoused population of los angeles and tell you what they have to say. I coulf tell you my position the various times I've been unhoused, or those of friends who have been. Those last two i didnt explicitly articulate, but you don't seem interested. You're in this for the violence, and i think you want rehoysing to fail to justify worse purges.

just hungry

... Yeah okay maybe a little, but not just hungry. Even after a snack the shit you said is gross. Like genuine need-a-shower gross. You are vile and can't even understand why.

you go where you're put

Okay. What if i don't want to? What if, as previously atated, 'fuck you'? Again, if you just talked to people and pretended they were people you'd have a higher uptake rate with more harmonious placements. If you make it an imposition, people, especially people who have in some cases literally been hunted for sport by organs of the state, will fight you tooth and nail, even if it's something they want.

Have you never interacted with another human being, or do you just not consider unhoused people to be human? There is no third option. Don't respond without telling me which or I'll just make fun of your response.

don't get to stay on the street

Stop hypothetical-me, bitch.

Note: stopping hypothetical me is is going to be more expensive, involve more atrocities, more collateral damage, and more resentment if your regime thats going to stick around and make collaboration harder for decades.

the only alternative

It says, blatantly ignoring the thing i said while bitching about how im bad faith uncharitable, because it's very serious and totally a full person.

Do you just ignore my way because it involves talking to a poor?

the chinese

I do not give a single fucking shit what they do in dengist new-deal-with-chinese-characteristics china, except for the purposes of being compassionate to the chinese people. Fuck all the way off with the whataboutism, seriously.

need to impose need to force need to MAKE THEM SUFFER or i can't cum.

That is between you and your sub, leave it the fuck out of policy, please.