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on the male loneliness epidemic (infosec.pub)

submitted 1 week ago by carotte@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/curatedtumblr@sh.itjust.works

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when i first heard about the male loneliness epidemic i was like oh yeah close camaraderie and bonding between men is often discouraged in favor of competition or, if not discouraged, at least filtered through a lens of individualism that precludes deep connections. and then i learned what people meant by it (men arent getting laid) to which i say skill issue

to all the men out there not getting laid: try less hard to get laid and try more hard to be an enjoyable and relaxing presence

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[–] starman2112@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's not reality that society cares to ridicule an average man who isn't dating anyone

Sure, aside from the well-recieved post we're commenting under saying that single men are unrelaxing and unenjoyable people

Society/women are generally angry and upset with men who are shitty to women and then get mad women reject them.

As they should be, those guys are awful

Why do you think having anxiety entitles him to control others?

I don't, and neither does he

Yes, here on Lemmy, where he doesn't want people to blah blah whatever he said.

"Blah blah whatever he said?" Are you calling this dude a narcissist for having thoughts and feelings and experiences that you can't even summarize?

I have lots of sex

Proud of u

Virgins are not in any way shape or form treated like pedophiles, lol wtf

Yeah it's a good thing I didn't say that. I wonder if I expounded on the point I was making in the comment you apparently didn't read

I'm fine harming men like this and you, they constantly do it to me and have for years - and you did do it to me, so clearly that justification is fair with you.

When??? I don't have a habit of diagnosing other people with mental illnesses or personality disorders

In fact, I am attempting to be helpful with his issue, because I am directly and specifically telling him what the exact issue is that makes him repellant to women and others.

I guess I might start though, this is a wild fucking take. I'm actually helping you by calling you repulsive. Lmao

Strawman.

You literally said that everyone disagreeing with you here was a narcissist

[–] LustyArgonianMana@lemmy.world -4 points 1 week ago

Look, I had a nice conversation with other people and realize this is pointless and not worth my time, and you especially aren't. I quit. You win. I don't care. Bye.