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on the male loneliness epidemic (infosec.pub)

submitted 2 weeks ago by carotte@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/curatedtumblr@sh.itjust.works

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when i first heard about the male loneliness epidemic i was like oh yeah close camaraderie and bonding between men is often discouraged in favor of competition or, if not discouraged, at least filtered through a lens of individualism that precludes deep connections. and then i learned what people meant by it (men arent getting laid) to which i say skill issue

to all the men out there not getting laid: try less hard to get laid and try more hard to be an enjoyable and relaxing presence

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[–] ElPsyKongroo@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Your attitude is just proving my point further. The only benefit of the doubt I can give you is that you can't comprehend what I was saying. Also, as far as I know, isn't Grindr for LGBTQ+? If so, why would I go there? I am straight. Or do you think straight men should "stop whining" and date other men? How is this different from conservatives telling gay people to just not be gay?

At the very least, thank you for letting me know I shouldn't be spending time on Lemmy. Keep acting like this and then complain about people using non-Fediverse sites. I'm just done. Enjoy Lemmy, the home of double standards and hatred. I won't take part in it any longer.