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im so sick of seeing reports regarding men posting in women-only communities and i cant help but get annoyed with these guys.

the rules are clearly presented. either youre not paying attention or youre just an asshole who purposefully throws their opinion in a place explicitly not wanting it.

what the fuck is wrong with you guys?

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[–] MotoAsh@lemmy.world 30 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (6 children)

"The rules are clearly presented"

WRONG! Posts show up in aggregate lists. You know, like the main page of lemmy instances. Where individual community rules do not appear at all if someone clicks on the post directly. I bet a significant amount of the time, people do not even realize which community they're replying to posts in.

Don't like it? Maybe Lemmy needs a way to either remove communities from standard aggregate lists, or to force a popup of community rules when a post is navigated to for a first time viewer that hasn't even seen the community page. Then I'd totally understand being pissed off at first time rule violators.

[–] TherapyGary@lemmy.blahaj.zone -3 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Why aren't people checking what community they're about to participate in? That feels like it ought to be standard behaviour

It feels that way to you. Not everyone shares your opinion

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