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I donβt know how to feel about this. Because the intelligent guy is totally me, but I also recognise that Linux is in no shape for a non tech literate person just to jump into.
I am very happy working in Linux as my daily driver, while my husband is bugging me to switch his desktop and laptop over since he is frustrated at how awful the UI in Windows 11 is. But I know he has a low tolerance for frustration and while he has decent technical skills, he tends to accumulate the absolutely most peculiar technical problems I've ever seen. I mean, I'm rather savvy with Windows and he comes up with problems that take me a long time to figure out - issues that would be difficult to cause even if you were intentionally trying to break Windows.
So I don't really know what to do here. He likes my Garuda setup because I've shown him how customizable KDE Plasma is, but the amount of weird shit dealing with the AUR that I have run into, stuff that I can solve fairly easily but a layperson would likely not be able to handle, makes me want to put Mint on his system even if he'll find it less suitable.
As someone like your husband, I use garuda too and definitely recommend he use something else (probably something like kubuntu), but my main recommendation is that if he's not willing to switch it himself (ideally as a dual boot) he's not ready to switch. I don't bother my computer expert wife with my bizarre problems, just like I didn't on windows.
Personally I'm never switching back to windows. Though seriously, your husband should probably have something either simple or immutable and be prepared to do his own tech support.
He really tries not to bother me, but the screaming gets my attention and when he's about to physically destroy the computer I feel I have to step in and fix it. That being said, he is not comfortable installing it himself so I want something that provokes the minimal amount of hand-holding. Honestly, the biggest issue with me not putting Garuda on his system is that he needs Davinci Resolve for his work and it doesn't install directly off the AUR, you have to download the application separately from Black Magic Design's site and edit the build file. He is not going to understand how to do that.
Oh yeah if he's at the screaming and attacking the computer level thats wildly different, I'd interpreted it as moderate frustration at a problem that's not going away