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im so sick of seeing reports regarding men posting in women-only communities and i cant help but get annoyed with these guys.

the rules are clearly presented. either youre not paying attention or youre just an asshole who purposefully throws their opinion in a place explicitly not wanting it.

what the fuck is wrong with you guys?

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[–] Arkouda@lemmy.ca 10 points 2 days ago (9 children)

Thanks for providing a great reason to leave this community.

The OP has been hostile in the comments, and in their OP, violating Rule 1, and Rule 5.

Do better.

[–] hddsx@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 days ago (6 children)

OK, I pulled out a computer for you so I could see the rules side by side with my post because my mobile client doesn't allow it.

Rule 1: Be nice and; have fun

Doxxing, trolling, sealioning, racism, and toxicity are not welcomed in AskLemmy. Remember what your mother said: if you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all. In addition, the site-wide Lemmy.world terms of service also apply here.

OP came in swinging hot, maybe a little toxic, but there are valid points behind the hot words.

However, OP has shown that they are able to accept other viewpoints from valid arguments (https://lemmy.ca/post/48960508/18080134). So I would argue this is borderline.

I have to say, I have no idea what sealioning is though.

Rule 5: This is not a support community.

It is not a place for ‘how do I?’, type questions. If you have any questions regarding the site itself or would like to report a community, please direct them to Lemmy.world Support or email info@lemmy.world. For other questions check our partnered communities list, or use the search function.

This isn't a "How do I". This is an open ended attempt (with some frustration) to try to under why members of the community do certain things.

That's my view anyway. What's yours?

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