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Don't be mean. I promise to do my best to judge that fairly.
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And by dismissing their very real issues as a trivial matter not worthy of even discussing, you've now pushed them into the arms of people who make false promises and exploit them.
Congrats, you shot yourself in the foot.
I'm not saying that punishing politically toxic men is trivial, I'm saying it's worth doing. You can't make a man change by pandering to him, you have to actually communicate with them directly, or they'll tune you out.
What you're doing is not communicating with them. You're preemptively dismissing them as your enemy and then acting surprised when they walk towards those who are acting welcoming.
"Not immediately insulting them over their voiced concerns" isn't pandering...