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Don't be mean. I promise to do my best to judge that fairly.
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depends on your circles. in feminist and leftist circles, it usually means the first
but most men outside of those circles use it just to mean "im not getting the dates i am ENTITLED to 😡"
I don't know who gave you that idea, but it's incorrect
That would be my husband’s friend from college who despite getting lots of interest on dating apps; wants nothing to do with any of the women interested in him.
And I quote:
Too fat
Too old
Too skinny
Too young
Butter face
She has a PHD
She has kids
Etc etc
Honestly, though, that sounds like an avoidant attachment style. He desperately wants intimacy, but it scares the bejeezus out of him, so he unconsciously finds a way to sandbag every potential connection.