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when i first heard about the male loneliness epidemic i was like oh yeah close camaraderie and bonding between men is often discouraged in favor of competition or, if not discouraged, at least filtered through a lens of individualism that precludes deep connections. and then i learned what people meant by it (men arent getting laid) to which i say skill issue

to all the men out there not getting laid: try less hard to get laid and try more hard to be an enjoyable and relaxing presence

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[–] burgerpocalyse@lemmy.world 22 points 2 days ago (2 children)

the problem is that no oNE HAS ANY MONEY TO DO ANYTHING

[–] Jiggle_Physics@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 days ago

The fact that you need significant funds to generally socialize is the problem

[–] LH0ezVT@sh.itjust.works 14 points 2 days ago (1 children)

That is certainly part of the problem, but I know plenty of guys with decent money who are quite unhappy with their lack of relationships

[–] frog_brawler@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Yea, you can't be the only person around that has any money. Other people have to have money too, so that they will go places.