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Do white men need to walk on eggshells? (infosec.pub)
submitted 3 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) by LadyButterfly@reddthat.com to c/womensstuff@piefed.blahaj.zone
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We are a women's only community, so please no male comments.

Edit: thanks all for reporting the hostile remarks! You really are an amazing group of people. Really appreciate how positive so many men have been as well. I see you all and value you ❤️

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[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 20 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Yep! They have the whole rest of lemmy to hang out in we're literally ONE group. I saw the thread but I was heartened to see how many men were standing up for is, plus a man warned me about the thread so we could protect ourselves. There were so many men there moaning that they couldn't come here and tell us we were wrong.

[–] Rekorse@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Both genders have the exact same amount of lemmy to hang out in. I dont understand why this community is so public if its meant to be a safe space. You can't just post a sign that says "gurlz only" and expect it to actually work as a deterrent.

[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 12 points 2 days ago

Thanks so much for dropping by! Ive had to ban you due to your behaviour, I hope you understand ❤️

[–] outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 2 days ago

You dont know what the hell you're talking about, ask a trans guy, someone who has had both sets of experiences and whom you may actually listen to.