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on the male loneliness epidemic (infosec.pub)
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when i first heard about the male loneliness epidemic i was like oh yeah close camaraderie and bonding between men is often discouraged in favor of competition or, if not discouraged, at least filtered through a lens of individualism that precludes deep connections. and then i learned what people meant by it (men arent getting laid) to which i say skill issue

to all the men out there not getting laid: try less hard to get laid and try more hard to be an enjoyable and relaxing presence

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[–] ThisIsAManWhoKnowsHowToGling@lemmy.dbzer0.com -1 points 1 week ago

Speaking from experience, the best way to get a girl is to be good with kids. Two kinds of girl are really attracted to a man who would gives off good dad vibes: emotionally stable and mentally healthy girls who are ready to make a family, and girls who think they are stable and ready for a family. Make sure you know which one you are dating.

Then, once you are in a relationship with at least one, get in the habit of reminding them with your words and actions that you love them every single day. This keeps the relationship strong, which means you won't have to deal with random jealousy out of nowhere.