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when i first heard about the male loneliness epidemic i was like oh yeah close camaraderie and bonding between men is often discouraged in favor of competition or, if not discouraged, at least filtered through a lens of individualism that precludes deep connections. and then i learned what people meant by it (men arent getting laid) to which i say skill issue

to all the men out there not getting laid: try less hard to get laid and try more hard to be an enjoyable and relaxing presence

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[โ€“] unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de 122 points 3 days ago (37 children)

I mean it also does mean the first thing tho no?

[โ€“] carotte@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 days ago (31 children)

depends on your circles. in feminist and leftist circles, it usually means the first

but most men outside of those circles use it just to mean "im not getting the dates i am ENTITLED to ๐Ÿ˜ก"

[โ€“] Asidonhopo@lemmy.world 33 points 3 days ago

No hate OP but I hope you find better friends someday.

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