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Im a man.
No we dont walk on eggshells. I walk on shoes.
Just one question to you women here. If you are trying to understand how men feel, wouldnt it be better to allow us in the community?
I dont think you will gain much insights talking about us rather than to us.
I like how this guy thought we don't know exactly how men feel or that we need any additional insight on top of just being bombarded with their opinions and world views at every possible angle.
Seriously, they must have no idea how many men use their partner are their sole emotional outlet.
We hear everything. Pillow talk gets pretty deep, possibly because a lot of men feel a comfort from a loving partner that they receive nowhere else. We hear their worries, their traumas, their insecurities. We understand and sympathize with men's issues a lot more than men seem to realize.
Also, to the male lurkers: thank you for not commenting. I know it's gotta be hard to have to hold back, but we appreciate it.