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I often work on my control influence with my therapist and what you wrote really hit home.
Deep down, the crux is the issue is control: I can't control everything, so I must focus on things that I can control. Taking local actions is something I can do to make me feel better and make the life of people around me slightly better. I should take solace in that to make me more optimist.