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[โ€“] treadful@lemmy.zip 8 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I get what you're saying, but as you kind of mentioned, it's a falsehood to believe any of your posts and comments here are under your control anyway. They get federated to other instances, maybe mirrored or crawled by bots. And these may or may not abide by your deletion of the content.

Might be best to just expose/enforce this reality to users. You send data publicly onto the Internet, it's forever out of your control. And there's no system in existence that can change that reality.

Also why it's important that a doxxed Internet never becomes reality.

[โ€“] 9tr6gyp3@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago

Even so, I would rather have the option to eliminate data pollution at my convenience. If someone else wants to replicate my data, they have their window to do it. Once Ive deleted it, that window is closed. I want to be able to decide that window of time, not others decide it for me.

We should all be proactive on cleaning up our data footprint imo. This is more than social media posts. It should be images, documents, videos, and any other data that is sprawling out uncontrolled. Gotta clean things up occasionally.