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Yes, changes in behavior led to changes in other aspects of behavior. It is inevitable, but not always important and noticeable. And not always nice.
There have only been one or two people I have met that were more tolerable when they drank, so I get what you mean.
Still, I find it hard to believe that long term sobriety wouldn't be a net positive unless it wasn't a person's own decision to stop drinking in the first place.
Depends on many nuances. If you're talking about straightforward alcoholic -- yes, almost always the result would be better. But sometimes moderate drinkers stop drinking for medical or other reasons. These people just lose an additional way to have fun, lose a good chunk of social interaction, which easily may lead to deterioration.