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[–] Empricorn@feddit.nl 51 points 2 weeks ago (29 children)

My nephew wants to be instantly good at things and it drives me crazy. He'll roll his eyes and say "of course you're going to make that shot (in billiards) or get frustrated that's he's not amazing without practicing in martial arts, video games, golf, fitness, etc. I'm sure he'll grow out of it, but in the meantime he won't work at it or accept instruction. I'm like "yeah dude, I've done this thousands of times. Let me help you!"

[–] vivendi@programming.dev 38 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Teach him to fail. Those kids are afraid of failing because somewhere in life someone traumatized them so they don't like to ever fail at anything.

[–] Flocklesscrow@lemmy.zip 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

*teach him to grow from failure

[–] vivendi@programming.dev 7 points 2 weeks ago

In order to grow from failure one must learn to fail

That first lesson was so hard to learn

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