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[–] Xanthrax@lemmy.world 37 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (18 children)

What do you have against hedonists? I think it's pretty bad ass to be happy regardless of how others judge you.

[–] salacious_coaster 28 points 2 weeks ago (9 children)

That's not what hedonism is. Hedonism is the pursuit of physical pleasure as the primary purpose in life. The problem with that is our brains are very good at moving our emotional goalposts to adapt to our circumstances, so we end up chasing greater and greater pleasures in a process called the "hedonic treadmill."

Billionaires are a good example of this. They get their kicks from watching their bank account go up and acquiring new things. But their brains quickly adapt to the new "normal", and then they need a higher number or newer thing. It's never enough.

[–] Xanthrax@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

That's my definition as well. I've drawn different conclusions, though. Hedonism, nihmism, etc... they've all gotten a bad name because of Edge lords who burn out. You don't have to be over consumeristic or do copious amounts of drugs. That would go AGAINST hedonism because you'll be unable to pursue pleasure in the future. It doesn't have to be an immediate payoff.

You're upset with people who are short-sighted, not hedonists. Those things aren't exclusive, but I think you catch my drift.

[–] Bonsoir@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 week ago

I think what you described here is epicureanism, not hedonism.

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