Off My Chest
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I'm not saying there's never a totality of circumstances where one must take this job. But to just wave it off like you're doing is just an excuse to never consider ethics.
I literally had an argument on here the other day with someone who refuses to believe there is bad science because capitalism is the one causing them to do unethical things. Your response sums up the actual truth of the matter very succinctly. Just because you have an excuse for something doesn’t make it unethical.
I didn't mean to sound like I was waving it off, the bigger point I was trying to make was that just finding another job can be very difficult. I'm currently stuck in a job that I hate and I've been trying for over a year to find something else. One job was a substantial pay cut and I got through several rounds of interviews before being let go and the other was a substantial pay increase and, again, I went through many rounds of interviews and really thought I was about to get an offer when they called and told me they went with someone else. Now I just feel defeated and trying to learn to accept that this is where I am for the time being. Even when you consider the ethics of a situation, sometimes there isn't really any good options.