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Is that worth a paycheck?
I don't know. I'm still processing.
I think it’s likely that every large firm, and lots of smaller ones, are at least partially responsible for something horrible. The only differences are whether we know about it or not, and if that horrible thing is the only/main reason the firm exists. There’s a good chance that your past and future employers did/knowingly enabled something ethically indefensible. That doesn’t make YOU a bad person.
Most of that is indirect, exploitation, greed. That’s very different than actively committing evil. And before anyone claims false marketing is false marketing, no it’s not. False marketing to rip someone odd is a scan. False marketing to encourage deaths should be a major crime
You could be a mole.
I doubt he's a mole. They don't get social security numbers for one thing.
No no, I think you misunderstood. They are 6.022 x 10^23 discrete identical things, not a small burrowing mammal. Common mistake.
That number is too large to be a social security number.
Au contraire, they are a sauce containing fruits, nuts, chili peppers, and spices like black pepper, cinnamon, or cumin.
My dermatologist warned me to keep an eye on those. If they turn black you’re supposed to freeze them or something.
Take your time. But welcome to a new club. You've been an advocate of good your whole life, an advocate of not killing people. Maybe you knew about nestle baby formula and boycotted them. But now the truth is turning you into an activist. And this can take any form you want, from attending peaceful protests to luigi. Start with small, consistent actions, be mindful, and talk to others about how you can make a difference.
Also, you dont have to protest quit right now, that's a decision for later and when you have something else lined up. Someone will do what your job is, you quitting doesn't make the company implode. Maybe you can take them down from the inside :)
Unfortunately, we live under capitalism and that requires a job. Even moreso if you have a family that you need to provide for... so even a shitty job, if it pays well enough, is enough to get you stuck. It isn't always easy to find another job with similar pay, especially when you have a demanding full-time job.
I'm not saying there's never a totality of circumstances where one must take this job. But to just wave it off like you're doing is just an excuse to never consider ethics.
I literally had an argument on here the other day with someone who refuses to believe there is bad science because capitalism is the one causing them to do unethical things. Your response sums up the actual truth of the matter very succinctly. Just because you have an excuse for something doesn’t make it unethical.
I didn't mean to sound like I was waving it off, the bigger point I was trying to make was that just finding another job can be very difficult. I'm currently stuck in a job that I hate and I've been trying for over a year to find something else. One job was a substantial pay cut and I got through several rounds of interviews before being let go and the other was a substantial pay increase and, again, I went through many rounds of interviews and really thought I was about to get an offer when they called and told me they went with someone else. Now I just feel defeated and trying to learn to accept that this is where I am for the time being. Even when you consider the ethics of a situation, sometimes there isn't really any good options.