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What about blue jeans and solid colour tshirts with no logos like a cartoon character
It's not a bad look, but it also isn't helping you out. You'll need to work with your body, facial attractiveness, and personality - which can do a lot. But not improving how you dress (not necessarily as a goth, but in some way that makes you look good and expresses yourself in a way that others understand) will leave a lot on the table.
Well with a beard and a second layer like a jacket I can pull off the "yes chad" look pretty easy even if it is an illusion, personality wise I'm a pretty shy guy that would rather pet a dog at a party than approach anyone but still capable of having proper conversations with random people though I have pulled an irish goodbye during one on one conversations at the end
Condition the beard and play with the dog and it'll work. At least thats what I did before transitioning
it's one of the only things I got going for me so of course I try to keep it looking nice and always get it taking care of when I get a nice hair cut the only other thing is if I happen to find woman into fat butts though I'd hope it was only for show
May I preach the good word of bicycles? Big butts are great but you can make it not only muscular but also giant /hj
But yeah I only mention conditioner out of sympathy for my hetero sisters. Back in my beardy days it was a novelty where I was to condition it, which meant I had women asking to play with my beard because of how soft it was and complaining that their boyfriends' were uncomfortable to touch.
It's so close to your hair it's hard to imagine it's uncommon
Never thought about it affecting my butt but biking is probably the only reason I have any visable muscle, can't say I want a bigger butt but I'm not about to turn down an advantage
Oh and just so the info is out there a metal lice comb works great to soften a beard if you can't was right away plus there cand be a lot of other stuff stuck in a beard