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[Sincere] Can you explain how? We've a lot of trauma from prople saying this and then acting counter to it, so an explanation would genuinely be helpful to us.
If you'd like to, no worries if not.
I hope I explained well, sorry
No need to apologise, you did. Thanks! π
Yay, no problem! How are you today?
Just about to go to sleep. Will answer later, but warning it might not be positive.
Iβm sorry if I did something wrong the! Goodnight
No you have done nothing wrong, it's about our life, not about you. Just time for eeps. π
Thanks!! Sleep well :) I will sleep too
you can post it later by the way!! itβs just no negative comments about others like βuser @abc sucks!!!β
Thanks for clarifying!
So to be honest, pretty upset and angry. Those we live with that think of themselves as our family have been nothing but abusive since we returned back to them from elsewhere.
Yesterday they tried to shut us down merely for trying to counter their indoctrination of a child that lives here into believing cops are good.
We have been left without a bathroom because of unforseen circumstances, and one of them messed up our network setup and refused to fix it so we have had to run a long cable between the rooms (which works better than the previous setup anyway).
Now it is father's day here and we're done with their awfulness but they are going to expect praise or a card or something else they will become even more abusive, but we refuse this time. They have stoked our final ire on the fire that we carry within us.
They don't get to treat us this way for years, hating everything we are and trying to shape and control us into what they want us to be and expect to get away with it. Ever since we started showing thinking for ourselves and gaining our own personality they haven't let up, from since we were quite small too.
There is no connection there and we are tired of pretending there is. They don't get to do that kind of thing to us any more.
Iβm so sorry this happened π« Thatβs very, very horrible. They have no right to treat you that way, you donβt owe them anything at all.
Thank you, that's very kind and helpful of you to say! π
Of course! Hope it gets better π
It won't, but we appreciate the well wishes. We need to figure out some way of escaping them.
I hope you can very soon!!
Thank you!
do you live with them? iβm sorry too :(
Yes, unfortunately they are the cause of our inability to work etc to move out. They gave us several mental health conditions and forced us to stay at a job we no longer wanted to work at (when we still worked). They're truly awful but they refuse to get the help they needed and instead attack us, they're also very right wing, whilst we're not. So you might be able to see what the problem is.
thatβs terrible :(( iβm so sorry
Thank you. We truly appreciate that.