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You have chosen to compete, there is a strong possibility that your desired outcome is not even something that you really want. It’s something that the majority has decided on your behalf that you want. Introspection and truly understanding yourself will lead you on a path far less traveled. I am not Muslim, but there is a verse in the Quran that losely translates to “your blessing is your own, no one can take it from you “ i have witnessed it personally. When you do the work to and learn to value yourself, doors open. Good luck 🍀