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I can never move to Europe (West or scandanvia) or any better country cause assholes in control always want degrees and people who are good at math.

Not only that but I feel so inferior as an American. Everyday, I wish this country had never existed with how rotten and horrific it is. I sometimes think of praying to god (I dont care if you're an edgelord atheist, don't judge) for stuff like this or to get better at least. The only thing the US does right is its treatment of violent monsters in prisons, and even then, the system is still as shitty as the country itself.

I can't even call myself a a christian for how badly they ruined it for us.

I'm a completely useless person so I know I dont have a chance. I am someone who only has an interest in the arts fields with ADHD. But I am interested in coding. I constantly wonder why and wish that I was born abroad instead instead of suffering in a pathetic, gross cesspit of a country. And I'm already aware of all the problems in other countries, yet I constantly wish that I was born there instead. It makes me feel so bad when I hear someone is not american cause I feel even more isolated and I have no idea why.

Even the process of moving abroad makes it seem not worth it to me so I sometimes get stuck. I just wish i was never born. I feel so inferior.

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[–] givesomefucks@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago (5 children)

America is huge and has large variation even among indivistates.

You might not be able to get citizenship somewhere else, but you can move somewhere like Minnesota who has liberal cities and a blue state government and still relatively low cost of living.

It's not easy to move states, but it's less effort that what you're saying you can't do.

America sucks, has for a while.

But globally we still won the lottery, just not the jackpot.

For now, don't worry about finding some career you love, that was always bullshit. Find something you're somewhat capable at or there's a worker shortage in

I'm pretty sure ADD is a good thing for flight controllers, it's practically tailor made for hyper focusing on a specific and very important thing. Use the money in your free time to do the art you enjoy.

[–] memeflicks@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Yeah I do wanna move on from just art to actually desigining physical props and costumes and stuff. As for STEM, I am a bit interested in coding and a bit interested in welding. However Im unsure if I actually will do welding.

[–] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

If you get into welding, wear a mask for your nose and mouth. My first job was working in IT at Cybo Robots. We made welding and cutting systems for assembly lines. We had four or five master welders on staff. They would watch the robots do their thing and tell the programmers what needed to be adjusted. None of them were in good health. They all had lung, eye, and back problems. Get all the safety gear. Then, ATGATT. Wear All The Gear All The Time.

They all said they took the job because it was easy, and they didn't want young people to end up with their health problems.

[–] memeflicks@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Its easy, Even if you hate math? (Not basic arithmeritic)

[–] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I am an absolute shite welder, but it's mostly muscle memory, and flame control as far as I can tell. That being said, I have only ever welded iron and steel. Never touched copper or anything expensive. And I don't try to weld anything that is critical, so I don't get to do it much

Edit: Oh, I see what your asking. No those guys were saying their job at Cybo was easy, and it was. We paid them $75,000 a year to mostly sit on their asses shooting the shit with each other. They only had to inspect a weld about once or twice a day.

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