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How I discovered my partner was an undercover police officer sent to spy on me
(www.independent.co.uk)
this post was submitted on 24 May 2025
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_by_deception
False name, false life story, false reason for having sex with her. He had sex with her in order to spy on her.
Soon: it was rape because I thought he was nice.
If everything is rape, then nothing is. Rape is about non-consent, not about deception. Or so I think.
You cant consent during deception. If your gf has aids and doesnt tell you, then you didnt consent. That is both the legal and culutral definition of rape.
Unfortunately: not everywhere is a woman capable of raping a man legally