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Okay, I am the only one thinking that a 5 and a 7 yo shouldn't play Minecraft alone?
What could possibly threaten children by playing Minecraft?
It's not Minecraft especially, it's the computer. I never played Minecraft so it may be suitable for a 7 yo (depending on the child), but at 5 no child should in my opinion play video games alone, only for small periods of time and always accompanied by an adult as their brain is not mature enough to grasp the concept of virtuality.
You're getting a lot of downvotes, which I think is related to the audience you're talking to (computer and game affine) and the fact that Minecraft is generally considered a kid friendly game, so what's the harm?
That being said, it has zombies, creepers etc. and a 5yo can definitely get scared by it. I've seen it happen.
However, I believe any unattended screen time at age 5 to be a much bigger issue in general. The AAP / AACAP recommends a maximum of 60 minutes a day of screen time at that age, and that includes the combined total including TV etc. Many European institutions advocate for a limit of 30 minutes (the AAP recently increased the limit in their recommendations).
Minecraft is a game suitable for kids, but unsupervised media consumption is definitely not a thing at age 5.
I'm not convinced that a 5 year old can't grasp the concept of virtuality. Minecraft on peaceful mode is just giant blocks being picked up and placed. Even if it were true they don't get that it's virtual (that I don't really understand how that could be true), I can't imagine what long term damage could possibly be done by believing the blocks are real.
I know this is Lemmy and most of y'all can't conceive of anything else. But the vast majority of Minecraft players don't play on the computer. Only 20% of Minecraft players use a PC. Not that I agree with your point either way, just useful information.
A console is a computer.
Is that what you meant earlier when you said children shouldn't be allowed on computers at age 5? If so I question your word choice.
English is not my mother tongue, so yeah my word choice may be bad. But I said that children shouldn't be allowed alone on computers before 6. Not only PCs, but all kinds of computers: PCs, smartphones, tablets, consoles, … However, for short periods of time and accompanied by an adult, they can use a computer.
I played video games since I was 3. They had to put a milk crate for me to stand on in front of the TMNT Arcade game. Mine craft teaches creativity and design and works as virtual Lego. It's fine.
I'm with you in this one, you're not the only person thinking that. But that might be some very modernistic parenting things, where we try to limit screen time as much as possible during the early development phase of our children's brains.
I had the exact same reaction when I read "5 year old" playing Minecraft.
Although I don't share my wife's extreme view where she would prefer no computer games until the age of 12 or something, cause this is just unrealistic in our society. I'd prefer guiding the approach, and I'd probably start somewhere around 5 or 6.
I know it's only anecdotal but I was gaming at age 5, and I definitely knew the difference between games and real life.