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[–] rabber@lemmy.ca 24 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (8 children)

I just got divorced at 30 after 7 years and I'm probably not going to get involved with a woman again. I'm not interested in having kids because the world is ending so it's essentially a no win situation unless someone can change my mind on this.

Had a crush on one of my friends for years and she wasn't interested even when I got divorced. Till I bought my house and now she wants in on my life.

I'm not saying all women are bad but I just don't see the risk being worth it. My ex wife ruined my life after many years of happiness.

There are a lot of positives being in a relationship but way more negatives. I'm just happier alone.

[–] Malfeasant@lemm.ee 17 points 4 months ago (2 children)

My wife of 20 years just suddenly (to me anyway) decided she wants a divorce. I was 30 when we got married. Your life is just beginning. Don't waste it feeling sorry for yourself.

[–] rabber@lemmy.ca 12 points 4 months ago

Yeah it need therapy. It was the loss of so many friends that really hurt me.

don't bet everything on one card. never ever do that. i learned that very early on.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 9 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I’m not interested in having kids because the world is ending

I'm hard pressed to point to any ten-year period in which some number of Doomers did not insist The World Is Ending.

Like, take your pick of any ten-year span during the Cold War. That butted right up against the OG World Wars, with a Great Depression breather. Before that you had plagues, famines, and economic crashes that shat all over '08 and COVID.

Westoids live in the wealthiest, easiest, most affluent era of human history. Then someone points out "hey, eating burger every day isn't sustainable" and they conclude the world is over.

[–] rabber@lemmy.ca 11 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (4 children)

Go outside, there are no bugs. We've lost nearly all biodiversity. It's over bud.

I drove from Victoria BC to Fairbanks AK three years ago without washing my windshield.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Go outside, there are no bugs.

My neighborhood is alive with cicadas every night and there's no shortage of mosquitoes biting.

I'm inside the Houston loop, too. Not out in the boonies. Spiderwebs in my garage. Toads in my drainage ditch. I assume they're eating something.

I drove from Victoria BC to Fairbanks AK three years ago without washing my windshield.

That's pretty normal in the winter. Try it again after a big rainstorm.

[–] rabber@lemmy.ca 2 points 4 months ago
[–] lnfg@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago

You want bugs? Drive through Florida.

[–] Kacarott@aussie.zone 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I'm happy to report there are still plenty of bugs outside the US. So by your evidence at the very worst, just the US is ending :)

[–] rabber@lemmy.ca 1 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

I'm in British Columbia

Be honest though when is the last time you've seen a butterfly?

[–] Kacarott@aussie.zone 2 points 4 months ago

Legitimately in the last two weeks, I forget which day specifically it was. But admittedly that was fairly unusually. But just yesterday I was sitting outside and saw a couple bees, and it is only the start of spring

[–] Zetta@mander.xyz 3 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I imagine you will continue to get disliked and I will as well, but the world isn't over and it's not going to end for a long time. People are always going to claim doom in their current time.

No matter how fucked everything is in the world right now, we are, on average, still significantly better off than almost every other human in all of existence.

[–] EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com 7 points 4 months ago (2 children)

No matter how fucked everything is in the world right now, we are, on average, still significantly better off than almost every other human in all of existence.

But the trend line is definitely going in the wrong direction. We are past our peak.

[–] pressanykeynow@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Why? Most of the world living better than 20 years ago and way better than 50 years ago, so the trend looks positive.

[–] EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com 3 points 4 months ago

I'd take 2005 over now

[–] Zetta@mander.xyz 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

For our lifetime maybe, but on a larger scale that is relevant to humanity as a species the trend down isn't even visible.

Again not trying to mitigate human suffering today, but I do really take issue with people dooming all the time.

[–] EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

What are your thoughts on climate change and increase in environmental toxins (e.g. PFAS and microplastics)? I don't see a positive light at the end of the tunnel on this.

[–] Zetta@mander.xyz 1 points 4 months ago

All bad things that humanity has caused and will likely continue to make worse. No sugar coating that. However humanity has a knack for survival, and we are capable of what is basically magic with modern day science.

I don't have a prediction for the future but I know when push comes to shove and we're forced to take action to survive we will find a way. How I wish we would take serious actions to correct the bad we are doing before that though.

[–] rabber@lemmy.ca 7 points 4 months ago (1 children)

No matter how fucked everything is in the world right now, we are, on average, still significantly better off than almost every other human in all of existence.

And that must mean that existence is suffering. Lol

[–] Zetta@mander.xyz 1 points 4 months ago

xD agree on that point

[–] EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com 9 points 4 months ago

Wholeheartedly agree on not having kids, but a vasectomy will take that off your plate.

Relationships are tough, but I'd at least keep an open mind.

[–] Snowclone@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I feel like if people are married they should be doing therapy before they hate eachother. Seems inevitable.

[–] rabber@lemmy.ca 3 points 4 months ago

Therapy didn't save us either

[–] MeThisGuy@feddit.nl 0 points 4 months ago
[–] UniversalMonk@sh.itjust.works -1 points 4 months ago

because the world is ending

Not anytime soon. Stop doomscrolling.

[–] 404UsernameNotFound@lemmy.wtf -3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

The world is probably not ending any time soon, have some faith in humanity. Watch this video why everything feels so frustrating : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c1nYtX-NUsc&ab_channel=Kurzgesagt%E2%80%93InaNutshell

[–] gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Oh the world definitely is ending (for most people, at least). Democracy is falling apart and we're at the very early stage of a huge (huge) mass-unemployment crisis by 2040.

[–] 404UsernameNotFound@lemmy.wtf 1 points 4 months ago

Okay then, think of it this way: we’ll all have plenty of time to scavenge for stylish leather outfits and practice our dramatic wasteland speeches. Silver linings, right?