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[–] nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 6 months ago (11 children)

i moved from the united states to a country which has a pretty intense haggle culture. without being able to talk about it, you might come here and think you're just being scammed by everyone.

[–] MutilationWave@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 6 months ago (6 children)

Where are you now if you don't mind? I absolutely hate haggling. I've read that in Persian society if you don't haggle three times you are being rude. I'm not trying to be racist, and I may have remembered wrong, but this sounds like hell to me.

[–] nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (4 children)

yeah. as an American, I think haggle culture is annoying as hell. it's completely unnecessary. they'll tell you the price is really high, and then you'll ask for something really low, and then they'll meet you in the middle where the price is supposed to be. what the hell was the point?

it's partly an ego thing. if you're selling something, and you don't give them at least some inconsequential discount, they're going to feel like they got ripped off. even if you're giving them an honest price that they won't find anywhere else, they need to buy it at a price that's lower than what is offered. The buyer and seller both need to feel that they are smart because they moved the price from what the other person wanted.

selling your motorbike or camera gear on Facebook is absolute hell. 90% of the messages you get will be wasting your time. "hello, I would like to buy your motorcycle for $40". haggle spam, basically. oftentimes they will agree to some price and then actually show up to your place, stare at the bike for an hour, and then change their bid to something so low that it is not sensible.

I could list examples for hours.

[–] MutilationWave@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Guh. All that sucks. I have some friends who were born in India, and they have told me the worst thing about being from that culture while living in the US is random Indians asking them to do things or give them a discount or even free stuff. Not all Indians do this of course, but it's enough to complain about.

[–] nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

yeah, I'm sure that being an Indian immigrant gives you access to a business community. probably nice for finding clients and partners, etc. the business culture within that community would be some mix of American and Indian.

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